She might be sending out all kinds of signals that she’s into us or not into us, or that she kind of likes the man but doesn’t like to kiss on the first date, but we’re too worried about impressing her to pick up on those subtle female signals.
Eventually, this leads to a man either lunging forward for a kiss, perhaps killing the mood of an otherwise successful date or creating a really uncomfortable scene when he finds out the woman isn’t into him, or it creates a series of hesitations and uncomfortable silences which can’t impress a woman, and might turn her off.
The key is to control those things which are in your control and aim them at the woman in such a way as to force her to be attracted to you. This is a direct shot at some of the weaker facets of the Mystery Method.
Mystery states that there are times when it’s important to “distract” a woman on the path to seducing her.
And it’s your place to be her lover and her strength, not her ‘girlfriend’.
Like “Attraction is not a choice”, this sounds like a nice sentiment. Rather, your confidence in the fact, the actual fact that she does like you will show the woman her feelings.
But on closer inspection it reveals another shadowy area of De Angelo’s seduction method. The woman’s feelings are but mirrors of your own posturing.
But if part of your “desires as a man” is to control, manipulate, lie to, or berate a woman, then your definition of “man” could use a review.
This is my girlfriend’s favorite David De Angelo quote.