Be careful to choose your words wisely as this is a very sensitive situation and you don’t want to seem like you are giving him an ultimatum to choose.I guarantee if you show anger and start throwing around nasty comments, he will rebel and you will lose him.2. Encourage him into setting some boundaries and see if he makes an effort. Be realistic and fair but do not compromise your needs.She comes over unannounced, cooks cleans and does his laundry.She may throw few verbal jabs your way and may even be guilty of manipulating situations to her advantage.
Empower yourself to decide that if things do not change, then you will leave.
Have you ever dated a guy and for the most part, things are good? He hits most of your major “must haves” however; there is one thing that bothers the hell out of you … Does it seem like she's always around, sticking her nose into your relationship?
She's needy and constantly calls him no matter how minor or severe the crisis of the day.
I will be the first one to admit that yes, I have a strong bond with both of my parents but the connection that I have with my Mom is very different from the one I have with my Dad.
Although she has advised me on more than one occasion, she has always remained objective.